The problem with goals, even though I love them, is I tend to see them as “have to’s” rather than “want to’s,” even when the goal comes from my deepest self.
When I didn’t succeed at my goal of winning NaNo last month, I had a really hard time with it. I had a good reason not to get my 50,000 words done (read my blog post about it here) but I still had to deal with that little voice in my head that told me my “reason” was just another word for “excuse.”
I think I’ve come by this way of thinking honestly, as a part of my medical training, but I don’t think it serves me any longer.
When I was a third year medical student, I was doing my pediatrics rotation at a big hospital. My team was rounding on our patients at a certain…
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